Pros and Cons of Threesome

The most important – be honest and frank with the partner.

Very many girls on my trainings tell that their husbands (or permanent partners) suggest them to have sex three together: two men and one woman or on the contrary to bring one more woman into a bed. But not all are ready to it. What to do? To take offense and break off the relations? To concede under the pressure of requests? Or to find the third option? And what consequences will be if couple by agreement decides to satisfy the curiosity? To answer these questions, we will consider all options.

DOUBLE PENETRATION OR COMPROMISE?

It is no secret that group sex – the most popular male imagination. It is easy for women to notice that at men a favorite genre in porn films are double and threefold penetrations. Why it is pleasant to men? First, they feel like males – without complexes, without rules, without shame. The effect of pack works. In such sex in general there is a lot of animal. Secondly, is a male dominance in sex: they are two, and the woman one – defenseless and weak. She cannot neither operate, nor specify. Oh, as it lifts a self-assessment to men! Thirdly, all erogenous zones of the woman are stimulated at full scale and at the same time, her control over a situation is completely turned off. To achieve it is just and there is a men’s dream. Perhaps, it is the cornerstone of desire to experience sex three together.

Here also the answer is what to do to the woman if she does not want participation of the third parties in intimate relations with the husband, but the husband about it asks. He can suggest to experience the same feelings – domination, a possibility of the maximum stimulation of female erogenous zones, the same double or threefold penetrations, but by means of sex toys! The dildo, the vibrator and other “pieces” created for sexual pleasure will help to realize a set of sexual imaginations. If to apply also the most modern smart sex toys with remote control like and an opportunity to modulate the vibro modes.  Most cam girls use them for privates so you can see them in action of how professional webcam models use them the right way.

It would be correct to address at the same time the expert – the sexologist, but not just to buy toys in the sex shop. The sexologist will teach how to apply sex toys, what and in what poses that it was as close as possible to the real picture at group sex. Also, will recommend you several versions of sex scenarios.

There is one more assistant for the embodiment of this imagination – a mirror. It gives effect of presence of other persons. A mirror it is possible to arrange in the bedroom and in front of a bed, and sideways, and even on a ceiling.

Besides, the woman can recommend change of the image for intimate relations (to put on a wig, for example, or a mask, erotic linen, a suit for role-playing games). It is worth paying attention and sex cosmetics, smells play very important role in sex, and new smells give effect of novelty.

And of course, it is very important to be well prepared – to study tame technicians, oral (a deep throat, anilingus) and other technicians of male dominance and women’s submission in sex.

All this it is possible to arrange and derive joint pleasure provided that partners sincerely will speak with each other, to trust, to open, tell about the imaginations and desires. At the same time, they can easily, without being afraid of offenses, allow to tell “no” or “in a different way”. The most important in couple is a confidence that you will not be rejected and will try to understand. At such relations it is always possible to find the most acceptable options of satisfaction of the sexuality both for the man, and for the woman.

GAME FOR THREE

The threesome has two options – M+W+W and W + M+M. When there is M+M – you can expect more fire, but it fuses quicker. + is as two glasses of water merged in bigger volume. You can even enjoy watching M+M+M or join Cameraboys online for more men in the threesome or foursome cam party.

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When the man wants two women at once, it would be quite good to consider the above-stated fact and to ask itself a question: and whether there will be enough fire to bring to boiling (orgasm) at once two. That it did not turn out so that partners humor each other, and the man feels abandoned.

But even if the man and the super macho, in this situation it should pass even through one test – to pay equal attention to each of women. Stands though a little more or somehow specially to caress the invited partner, and with jealousy the wife (the constant partner) to Savior will not be then. Women see everything, feel and remember.

Penetration into one of women automatically lays another aside. And therefore, it is desirable to kiss and caress another at this time. And for this purpose, it is necessary to be the masterly lover!

The threesome is also a game. As spoke in ancient China: in sex a game turns out only when there is the third (there the one who spotted was it usually). Not the player (that is the person not creative, with weak imagination) in sex with two women can seem to very boring both young ladies.

There are many cases when the woman went on a rupture of the relations with the permanent partner or the husband after love of la Troyes because she liked the second participant more, sex with her is righter.

AFTER SEX – THREE TOGETHER

However not all women in couples have enough step and courage to refuse to the man his request to make love three together. By the way, scientifically sex three together is called trio amendment.

But what to do if all of you were involved in a threesome? Aftertaste from new feelings can be both bitter, and sweet. Let’s say the woman was afraid to decide on sex three together – the person can be afraid of the unknown. But having overcome fear, she understood that it is pleasant to her. Well what here to tell? If it is pleasant, then – on health! The main thing not to allow emotional and physical abuse over itself.

But there is one prevention: try not to fall into dependence on such feelings. Happens that after group sex, to the person (both the man, and the woman) it becomes already uninteresting to make love together. And here the race behind feelings when already and three it is not enough can begin …

Why so happens? For one simple reason – laziness to develop the sexuality, to receive sex education. Sexual development is not viewing of a porn at all. But, alas, people follow the line of least resistance – by the principle “not quality, so quantity”. Whether many ways of receiving sexual pleasure modern men and women know? Alas, in use of the majority of couples there are several habitual poses and movements which become boring over time. Here then search of the third participant begins. Often couples do not know yet that they actually look for themselves a problem.

For example, the man even if itself was an initiator of a threesome, feels jealousy (if a ratio of participants of M+W+M). Where two men, – there involuntarily there is a rivalry. There are many cases when after sex three together the partner remained with “friend” of family and stopped the relations with the permanent partner even if it was the husband.

And business here not so much that “friend” was technically the best lover how many that admitting so close to itself the third, couple loses intimacy of the relations which is connected with emotional attachment to each other. These gentle thin communications are torn.

In such cases the best council – not to hurry, to allow passions to settle, include reason and to make the decision, proceeding from common sense.

Still very often sex three together is a stress for the woman. She can uncomfortably feel, but hide it to hold a number of the husband who wants it. But be careful, suppression of can lead to a depression. And in general violence over itself does not lead to anything good. Here council one – to be open in the feelings. To say to the husband about what is pleasant to you and it is in the same way easy to say what is not pleasant.

But if decided to try, do not forget that sex three together is only sex, do not turn it into the relations. Let it will be a holiday, rest, but not system. And it is even better – get the same feelings with the loved one the help of sex toys.